I Miss My Ex Girlfriend Breakup Advice

So, you really want to get your ex girlfriend back. Do you find it hard to carry on without her?

Have you already tried to win her love back and failed?

I'm going to assume that you've been searching the internet for breakup advice because you miss your ex girlfriend and desperately want to rekindle your relationship with her. It's good you've landed here because this site has loads of information that should help you succeed.

But, just because you miss your ex doesn't mean that she misses you. It's up to you to judge whether you have a realistic chance or not. Trying to fix a breakup that has no chance in the long run will drive you nuts, so try and be realistic. Having said that, if you think you don't have much of a chance, read this post - reclaim your ex.

So, you're still in love with your ex girlfriend, you miss her and you want to know what you can do to get her back. What have you tried so far?

Most guys that reach this site have already tried a lot of things and failed. If you're like them you've probably done all the wrong things, like promising her that you'll change. Maybe even resorting to pleading with her to take you back. Lots of emails, texts or phone calls.

The trouble with these techniques is that they make you look desperate, or even worse, you frighten them. But regardless of how they take it, it usually drives them further away.

Some men will try the opposite tactic to pleading and they'll turn to bribery. Buying her expensive gifts or offering to take her to fancy restaurants in an attempt to impress her. That doesn't work either. She may accept your gifts, but bribery isn't the way to win back her love.

Most women want a partner who will take the time to listen to what she has to say.

Men have a bad habit of offering advice.

Women seldom seek advice.

Most often they are just trying to get something off their chest, they are not telling you their gripes so that you can identify the problem and then give them the solution. They just want you to listen attentively and try and understand how they feel.

Getting this wrong is a common complaint from ex girlfriends, they feel neglected, they don't think their boyfriend was really interested in them.

Listening is a skill, a lot of men only hear the parts of the conversation they think they can help her with and then try to make HER listen to THEIR solutions. That's fine with another guy, it's not with your girlfriend.

Don't offer advice unless she explicitly asks for it.

Whenever you get the chance to talk with your ex girlfriend, take the time to really listen to what she has to say. For a woman, a man who listens intently to her is a man who really understands and is genuinely interested in her.

If listening to your ex wasn't one of your strong points in the past, then believe me, if you start listening now she will notice the change. She'll begin to realize that you did care after all. It may just be enough to get her to notice you again and start to miss all the good times you had together. You did have good times didn't you?

If you really miss your ex girlfriend, then take this piece of breakup advice and start really listening to what she has to say. You might also find it useful to read the post I mentioned above, reclaim your ex, it has some good advice in it.